Passyunk Teen Guided By Faith At 14, Michael Graham Is Turning His Back On The Negatives In His Neighborhood. How? With Prayer.

October 28, 1996|By Rita Giordano and Alfred Lubrano, INQUIRER STAFF WRITERS

The only thing between Michael Graham and the Passyunk ghetto was the 46th Psalm:

``God is our refuge and strength. . . . Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea. . . . ''

He read it daily in the Bible he carried with his schoolbooks. When cocaine molecules rang the bells in his mother's brain; when the drug guys took over his house to sell the junk 9 p.m. to 4 a.m. out of the kitchen; when the cops broke down the door and arrested his grandmother in the bathroom - the boy closed his eyes and mouthed the words and found a man's courage.

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If you were to meet him today at age 14, when he stars in school plays and preaches Sunday sermons to adults, you would never know his childhood lasted just a few years. That all the adults in his family failed him. That through it all, Michael prayed to God and stood his ground.

``In the Bible, Joseph was sold by his brothers into bondage in Egypt,'' says Michael's mentor, the Rev. Allen Jenkins, formerly of Faith United Methodist Church on the edge of Passyunk. ``That's how I look at Michael's life. Everybody around him wrote him off. Everything in his life was bad. But it turned out good.''

Michael lives in Passyunk Homes, the most welfare-dependent place in Philadelphia, a village of women and children held together by the monthly benefit check. A Passyunk childhood is as hard a life as there can be in America. Perilous and short-lived, it is nurtured by a fraying network of mothers and grandmothers. When welfare reform cuts the flow of checks to those women and the women of all the Passyunks in America, no one knows what will happen to children like Michael.

Despite so many obstacles, Michael has somehow survived without becoming bitter or dangerous. Maybe he is gifted with a special kind of will. He would say it was God. One social-service agency is studying Michael to learn the source of his strength.

As remarkable as his life has been, his future is by no means preordained. Michael is now moving into middle adolescence. On the way to manhood, he stands at the crossroads. He's come so far. But he's not safe yet.

A TOO-BUSY FATHER

Michael is one of eight children his mother had by five fathers.

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