Slain man's legacy: Comfort for grieving kids After David Bradley was killed, his friends set up a program to help youngsters face loss.

December 15, 2002|By Cynthia J. McGroarty INQUIRER SUBURBAN STAFF

David Bradley was gunned down by a fellow employee at General Chemical Corp. in Richmond, Calif., four years ago.

Since then, friends of the Plymouth Whitemarsh High School and Lehigh University graduate have raised tens of thousands of dollars every year in his name for a special program at the Wissahickon Hospice.

At this year's event in San Francisco, the David Bradley Foundation raised about $13,000 for the David Bradley Children's Bereavement Program, begun in 1998, said Amy Zabele, a social worker at the hospice who runs the program.

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The money will go toward the continued operation of the program, Zabele said. Proceeds from the annual Popcorn Day with the Phillies every April also go toward the program.

The David Bradley Foundation is fulfilling a mission that her son would wholeheartedly endorse, said Bradley's mother, Doris Bradley-Plager, who lives in Worcester.

"David always wanted to help children who were grieving, because he had been there," Bradley-Plager said.

Bradley's father, W. Douglas Bradley, died of cancer in 1983. In the final stages of his illness, the family turned to Wissahickon Hospice for assistance, Bradley-Plager said.

"They were incredible with the amount of support they gave us," she said. "Whatever you needed, they orchestrated everything."

Bradley-Plager later became a volunteer with the hospice, she said. When her son's friends were trying to come up with a beneficiary for their fund, she suggested seeding a hospice program.

The children's bereavement program is designed to help children up to age 18 cope with the terminal illness of a family member before and after a death, Zabele said.

Children often grieve differently from adults, and special care may be required to assist them, she said. For instance, children may not be able to verbalize feelings and may show emotions through unusual behavior.

And because they still have most of their life experiences ahead of them, Zabele said, their grief is "revisited along the way" at significant milestones such as graduations, weddings and the births of their own children.

In home visits, Zabele, who works part time, engages children in conversation, drawing and other play activities to help them cope. Last summer, she began working with the children of Janet Welsko, a Spring City resident.

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