A marriage and two serious relationships have foundered - he wonders if it's his consuming environmental ethic. He speaks of "the work I do and the pain it creates," adding, "I know I'm incredibly intense."
He has despaired of finding romance online. A computer recently matched him up with a smoking, meat-eating conservative.
But here's another contradiction: Crater, the recycler who wants recycling to become obsolete, is looking for a new place, one with room to handle more stuff and brainstorm more projects.