That's how Barry became a member of what has become a fellowship of famous philanderers.
In the past year alone, former presidential hopeful John Edwards, U.S. Sen. John Ensign and Mark Sanford the soon to be null and void governor of South Carolina have all seen their political futures clouded by infidelity.
Barry, 73, was arrested Saturday night in Washington by U.S. Park Police when another former girlfriend, Donna Watts-Brighthaupt, 40, flagged down a cop and complained that Barry was stalking her.
The current status of the three-term mayor's relationship with Watts-Brighthaupt is unclear. Barry, who still serves on the D.C. City Council, seemed to believe they were still close.
But when a woman charges you with stalking her, it's clear that she views the relationship in a different light.
In a statement released Sunday, Barry said he felt "betrayed" considering the emotional and financial support he gave her. In April, he was seen paying $800 at an auction to buy her what the Washington Post described as "an opera jacket"
The stalking charge seems a wee bit suspect. They had had lunch together hours before she had him arrested. But, whether he was stalking her or just tailgating, Barry's woman woes may sink him again.
It's a trend. Sanford's multi-national booty call prompted colleagues to urge his resignation as governor. Ensign stepped down as chair of the GOP Policy Committee and Edwards may never get his hair sculpted in the Senate barber shop again.
I have no idea why so many powerful men jeapordize their futures to pursue a dalliance. I've been out of circulation longer than Confederate coins so I can't help them.
But they can help each other. I suggest a support group, a 12-step program for men who find the concept of one woman at a time too confining.