Providing a last kindness

Phila. woman helps with poor children's funerals.

March 06, 2011|By Alfred Lubrano, Inquirer Staff Writer
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  • Patricia Quinn starts to cry as a slide show she helped create about Olney fire victims Kevin and Peterson Taing is run. Watching are Michael Taing (right), a brother, and David Taing, a half-brother.
  • Patricia Quinn starts to cry as a slide show she helped create about Olney fire victims Kevin and Peterson Taing is run. Watching are Michael Taing (right), a brother, and David Taing, a half-brother.
  • At the funeral for Peterson and Kevin Taing, 5-year-old Michael Taing holds roses that he will leave at his brothers' graves in Ivy Hill Cemetery.
  • At the viewing for Kevin and Peterson Taing, who died last month in an Olney fire, Patricia Quinn stands with their 5-year-old brother, Michael. Quinn secured substantial discounts for the boys' funeral and burial. "They're my neighbors, and I have to help," she said.
  • Clockwise, from above, Patricia Quinn carries balloons she bought to line a path to the Taing grave sites and to release into the air; directs cars forming a procession; and, a day earlier, carries a display memorializing Peterson Taing.
  • Patricia Quinn hands out programs to Buddhist monks at the service for Kevin and Peterson Taing, boys who died in an Olney fire. Quinn procured substantial discounts for the funeral.
  • Brian Nava of North Philadelphia died of cancer at 17. Quinn paid for his casket and his final trip to his family's native Mexico, where he was buried.
  • Quinn waits for a casket to be delivered, above,before the Taing brothers' memorial service. At right, she and Oakah Cho of Line Flower in Elkins Park carry flowers the shop donated to the event.
  • Quinn, a funeral director, carries a display memorializing Peterson Taing, 9. Her nonprofit, Final Farewell, helped obtain it.

February lightning, rare and ominous, tore through the sky over Ivy Hill Cemetery in Northwest Philadelphia.

Sokpheng Taing, a Cambodian immigrant who lost two sons in an Olney fire Feb. 22, was scouting grave sites in the mud, wondering how he could afford to bury his boys, Kevin, 7, and Peterson, 9.

Thunder crackled as Taing turned to the diminutive woman standing next to him in the rain and asked, with his hand over his heart: "Can you help me out?" Patricia Quinn, the only person in Philadelphia who could, nodded. "Don't worry about it," she told Taing, who nearly smiled.

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On Saturday, she accompanied the tiny caskets to their final resting place.

For the last five years, Quinn, 43, a licensed funeral director, has devoted her time to burying or cremating babies and children 18 and younger whose families can't afford funerals. She even stepped in to help the victims of the duck-boat crash last summer.

Quinn collects no salary. Her nonprofit, known as Final Farewell, is funded by donations - the bulk coming from a Berwyn multimillionaire who fears fires.

Quinn, her 9-year-old daughter, and her 19-year-old stepson live in Olney on the income of her husband, Tom. He's a funeral director at his family's business. It's one of the homes that forgo fees when burying small children.

Because there's never enough money in Final Farewell's coffers, Quinn uses her standing in the funeral community to negotiate deals for parents, getting cemeteries, casket suppliers, limousine companies, florists, and others to cut prices or work at cost.

"I've called on Trish on many occasions," said Marty Hudson, a social worker in the neonatal intensive-care unit of Children's Hospital of Philadelphia, where the sad reality is that some babies die.

"Trish is very devoted and passionate. She feels every child has the right to a dignified burial or cremation. It's really a mission for her, and I don't know of anybody else who does this."

Roberta Edwards, whose niece Rasheedah Wilson, 33, and Wilson's three children, 8, 11, and 14, died in a North Philadelphia house fire in January, called Quinn "a blessing."

"She took care of everything," said Edwards, 49, a nurse's assistant. "We're so grateful she stepped in."

 

Palace of the dead

The Guckin Funeral Mansion on G Street in Kensington is a throwback to a time when the well-to-do erected estates with idiosyncratic touches, such as metal shelving built into room radiators to keep food warm.

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