- Pillow Talk 26 Years Later
DEAR ABBY: "Bringing" could give her friend a set of cooking spices to "keep the spice in their marriage." The card should read: "Let your fantasies go wild when you have the 'thyme'!"
- Spice Girl in Stockton, Calif.
DEAR ABBY: For my granddaughter's lingerie shower, I gave her a generous check, a pair of men's dress socks and a note saying the socks were to replace the ones she'd knock off him when he saw her in one of her beautiful nightgowns. It elicited many chuckles from the guests.
- Still Knockin' His Socks Off
DEAR ABBY: I was given a gift basket, which included body lotion, bath salts, candles, chocolates and a romantic DVD. I enjoyed the gift basket more than the lingerie.
- Judy in Rawlins, Wyo.
DEAR ABBY: We had a "useful utensil party" for my future sister-in-law. I gave her a nutcracker.
- Debbie in Albion, Calif.
DEAR ABBY: When I attended my granddaughter's bridal shower, I wrapped some fig leaves with her gift and joked about her wearing them in case her closet ran short. She responded with, "Gramma!" It surprised her, but it brought a lot of laughs.
- Gramma on the West Coast
DEAR ABBY: Lovely camisoles or slips, special mesh bags for washing fine items, scented lingerie detergent or pretty new slippers are all acceptable and appreciated gifts for starting married life.
- Dianne in Carlisle, Pa.
DEAR ABBY: As a gag gift, she could give them a bottle of aspirin and some good reading material . . .
- Been There in Illinois
DEAR ABBY: Four silk scarves, a leather whip and a can of whipped cream. This is all done in FUN!
- Having a Good Time in the East
DEAR ABBY: My dad said it didn't matter what my sister wore on her wedding night. She could wear a burlap sack and her husband would be happy. One of my aunts took his idea and made a burlap sack "nightie," complete with lace at the neckline and hem. My sister, who has a wonderful sense of humor, wore it on her wedding night. I'm sure it provided a good laugh and a fun way to end their wedding day.
- Her Big Sister
DEAR ABBY: Packaged in a beautifully wrapped, fairly large box was one lace-and-ribbon bow with a note saying, "Wear only this on your wedding night."
- With Love From Grandma
DEAR ABBY: My in-laws were married in 1940. She was 17; he was 19. For her shower, my mother-in-law received a beautiful full-length nightgown with fur trim around the bottom added by the giver. The card read: "To keep your neck warm."
- Irene in Elida, Ohio
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