Making their case

Lawyers who are mothers band together for mutual support and to try to lessen the trials unique to their profession.

August 17, 2011|By Sally Friedman, For The Inquirer
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  • Tanishka Cruz (second from right), a third-year student at Drexel University's Earle Mack School of Law, talks during the lunchtime meeting of Philly-MAMA (Mother Attorneys Mentoring Association) in the board room at Console Law Offices.
  • Tanishka Cruz (second from right), a third-year student at Drexel University's Earle Mack School of Law, talks during the lunchtime meeting of Philly-MAMA (Mother Attorneys Mentoring Association) in the board room at Console Law Offices. (TOM GRALISH / Staff Photographer)
  • Alison Altman Gross , speaking at a meeting of Philly-MAMA, has the attention of fellow lawyers (from left) Frances Emmeline Babb, Natalie D'Amora, and Andrea Kirshenbaum. Chapters of the organization have spread across the country; locally, there are 75 members. In many law firms, 60-hour workweeks are not unusual; leaving the office at 5:15 to pick up a child from day care is seen as shortchanging the client. (TOM GRALISH / Staff Photographer)
  • Laura Mattiacci (left) and Erin Gill at a lunchtime meeting of Philly-MAMA in the boardroom at Console Law Offices. Mattiacci, who helped start the group, has two young children; Gill has three. The culture of the Philadelphia lawyer may be entrenched, Mattiacci notes, but it "collides directly with [mothers'] needs and schedules." (TOM GRALISH / Staff Photographer)
  • Laura Mattiacci and colleagues say some problems are unique to them as working mothers. "There's the constant stress of trials," Mattiacci says, "the uncertainty of schedules, and a long tradition of being at the office full time-plus, well into the evening."
  • Attorneys Erin Gill (left) and Andrea Kirshenbaum leave the lunchtime meeting, where talk focused on transitioning into law jobs other than in firms, including being in-house counsel or law professors, and finding strategies to make partner while maintaining sanity as a mother. (TOM GRALISH / Staff Photographer)

It's 5:30 p.m., "face time" at law firms across Philadelphia.

Partners spend time reviewing cases with associates, and associates stick around to tally more billable hours or cultivate future clients through drinks or dinners.

For attorney Laura Mattiacci, 34, that hour provides an entirely different scenario. She's on her way out the door to start the infamous "second shift," the one that involves home and motherhood. That means rushing to pick up 21/2-year-old Jack from day care, relieving the babysitter who watches 4-month-old Mason, and preparing dinner. Her husband, John, also a lawyer, juggles responsibilities with Laura, but also has extreme demands on his time.

"I'm like so many other lawyers who are mothers, trying to fit into a culture that may be entrenched with Philadelphia lawyers," Mattiacci said, "but that collides directly with our needs and schedules."

It's a scenario that prompted her to help create Philly-MAMA (Mother Attorneys Mentoring Association) in 2009 as a way to share these concerns, gather ideas, and perhaps ultimately change the city's legal culture. Two years later, membership has hit 75, one indication that the legal profession is still not in harmony with the women's lives as mothers-in-the-law.

While there are no specific statistics about lawyers who are mothers, the general findings of a 2010 survey by the National Association of Women Lawyers suggested that women in large law firms don't do as well as men economically, and they are in the minority in the upper echelons of firm management and leadership.

Also, while they represented 47.2 percent of law school students, they are only 31 percent of American lawyers, according to the American Bar Association's Commission on Women.

Yes, the home-work conflict exists for mothers (and fathers) in many careers, but law firms are particularly tough when it comes to advancement for women. That's likely why MAMA chapters exist in Austin, San Diego, Honolulu, Washington, D.C., and the founding city, Seattle. It was there that attorney Rachel Black began the group, currently with more than 550 members, in 2006 after she was forced to finish a big trial in her last month of pregnancy, give birth, and then try to make partner in her firm.

"Fifty women showed up at our first public meeting," said Black, "and more and more kept coming. This organization has really tapped into some urgent issues."

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