Dear Abby: Their romance needs some rekindling

Posted: September 19, 2011

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my love for more than five years. Our lives have not been easy, but whose has? God decided to bless us with a little one while we were still too young, but we work hard to provide the best for our blessing.

Somewhere down the road the romance disappeared. I often wonder if he despises me for getting pregnant or for keeping our son. My love had big plans and still does, but he seems miserable. I know I can't force him to make the effort to change his own life and pursue his dreams.

I miss my friend, the person who wanted to be near me, hold my hand and hold me tight. Despite all my attempts to talk, nothing changes. Is it over?

- Romanticizing Romance

in Dallas

DEAR R.R.: As the saying goes, "It isn't over till it's over." The man you love may be unhappy that his life took an unexpected turn, but he's still with you and that says a lot.

Because he won't talk out his feelings with you and appears to have withdrawn, remind him that you love him, want him to be happy and encourage him to talk to a licensed therapist to help him get his future back on track. It will be money and time well spent.

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