Q: I've been dating a wonderful man for about six months, but he has a bad habit that drives me crazy. Whenever we are out and an attractive woman comes into view, he stares at her. We'll be talking in a restaurant and, all of a sudden, his head turns, he stops talking and he's looking at another woman. It's embarrassing and humiliating. I've complained about it, but he doesn't stop. I don't want to become a nag, but this is becoming a drag. Suggestions?
Mia: The next time you see a cute guy, turn your head all the way around and watch him. Make sure your guy notices what you're doing. If he dares to complain, remind him that he does the same thing. Then, do it again. Make a real show of it. If Mr. Wonderful still doesn't take the hint and knock off the rubbernecking, then you have to decide if he's really so wonderful after all.