Steve: The problem, however, is that what begins as FWB can end in love. You don't say how long you've been dating him. If you've been together a year and he's not committing, then you have no future together. If you've been with him a month, it's probably too early to tell.
Q: I met a man who told me I could move in with him. He said he would take care of the bills and everything. Well, this worked for a while, but I began to feel depressed and I don't know why. We eventually broke up, and now he's asking me to pay him back for my breast implants. He's the one who wanted me to get them! I don't want to end it ugly, but I feel I have no choice. I wish we could remain friends, but he's being ridiculous. I need my money to start a new life.
Steve: And you'll find your bigger breasts quite useful, too. The boob job was a gift, and only the lowliest cad asks for gifts back when a relationship ends. Ah, well, c'est l'amour.
Mia: He's hurt and trying to hurt you. Give it time and, hopefully, he'll calm down and accept that you've moved on. If he doesn't, maybe you can work out a payment plan.
Steve is a 50-something married man who's been around the block. Mia is a younger, recently married woman with an all-together different attitude. They may not agree, but they have plenty of answers. For answers email S&M@phillynews.com or write: S&M c/o Daily News, 400 N. Broad St., Philadelphia, PA 19130.
