In reality, no stereotype

TLC's "All-American Muslim" follows a Michigan group whose dress and interests portray the diversity within a growing minority.

November 13, 2011|By David Hiltbrand, Inquirer Staff Writer
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  • After deciding to wear a hijab, Samira Amen gives away jewelry to her sister Shadia. She also passed along some of her clothing.
  • After deciding to wear a hijab, Samira Amen gives away jewelry to her sister Shadia. She also passed along some of her clothing.
  • A hijab is not unusual at a high school game in Dearborn, where the coach and much of the team are Muslim. (ADAM ROSE / TLC )
  • Mike Jaafar, deputy chief of the Wayne County Sheriffs Department, his wife, Angela, and their children are among the families in the new series. (ADAM ROSE / TLC )

NEW YORK - There's a new reality show star on the tube Sunday night. Suehaila Amen doesn't drink, prays daily, and wears a head scarf in public to preserve her modesty. I don't think we're at the Jersey Shore anymore, Snooki.

Suehaila is one of the cast members of TLC's new series All-American Muslim.

While most of the women on the show, set in Dearborn, Mich., choose to wear the hijab (traditional scarf), there are some startling exceptions.

Glamorous blonde Nina Bazzi, for instance, appears to have wandered over from The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills set by mistake.

"I'm a little different, a little out of the box," Nina says, over a plate of oysters. "I do what I want to do, but I was born and raised a Muslim. And I'm living my life as a Muslim - but more as a modern Muslim."

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A few seats away, tattooed and pierced, sits Shadia, Suehaila's sister. She likes tailgating at country music concerts and calls herself "a hillbilly at heart."

"I have an extremely strong relationship with God," she says. "My looks may not convey that. But that doesn't change what's in my heart."

A portion of the cast has been on a quick-march promotional tour in New York. Sitting next to her husband, Jeff McDermott, who converted from Catholicism to Islam to marry her, Shadia is unwinding after appearances on Today and Anderson.

"I wore a scarf for 13 years," she says. "I took it off because if I'm going to represent my religion, I want people to get the right image."

The portrait of Muslim Americans depicted on the show is a purposefully diverse one, from the strictly observant to the seamlessly assimilated.

The gratifying part of All-American Muslim is that no matter where on the religious spectrum these families fall, as soon as the cameras go inside their living rooms, they quickly feel like neighbors.

"All-American Muslim is a much needed counter-narrative to negative images of Muslims that seem to saturate the news," says Rugiatu Conteh, outreach and communications director for the Philadelphia chapter of the Council on American-Islamic Relations.

The religion could certainly use an image upgrade. A new study conducted by the Pew Research Center indicates that 24 percent of the general public believes American Muslim support for Islamic extremism is on the rise.

Only 4 percent of American Muslims agree.

Ready or not, Americans will have to learn to accommodate this growing sect.

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