We've come to rely so much on the electric grid that when we are forced to do without it, our lives are thrown into chaos, worsening as hours and days pass without power.
Even tent campers know going in that the time spent relying on a Coleman lantern, a propane stove, and an ice chest will be no more than a week at most. And alternatives to camp cooking, as well as hot showers, generally are close by, so you know relief is just a short drive away.
My brother-in-law, his wife, and their three children, however, racked up about 15 days without electricity as a result of Hurricane Irene in late August and the surprise Oct. 29 snowstorm that felled thousands of trees, branches, and power lines.
Another brother-in-law, who brought his family down from Boston the morning after the storm, described the scene as "Armageddon," with hundreds of streets blocked by trees and downed wires.
When I was in Connecticut for Thanksgiving, I saw huge stacks of tree limbs sitting at the edges of front yards, waiting for municipalities to grind them up.
According to Reuters, the utility company had reduced its maintenance budget by almost $40 million last year; that's a lot of overhanging branches that could have been trimmed before they brought down wires.
At the height of the outage, the head of the electric utility made a big deal of his house being in the dark, as if it that made it better for everyone.
The all-in-it-together approach made little difference to my 97-year-old aunt, who lies in a nursing-home bed with a broken hand and a pin holding her hip together.
She has lived by herself all these years, only to fall in a darkened bathroom during the first night of the storm.
We've talked on the phone every two weeks for years. She barely knew I was at her bedside when I visited her recently.
None of her children, who are in their 70s, had power that night, either. Aunt Lena thought she could tough it out, assuming the electricity would come back quickly.