Dear Abby: Caring neighbors fill void left by child's inattentive parents

DEAR ABBY: "Friend of a Lonely Child" complained his wife didn't like him befriending the neighbor boy, "Donny," whose father is terminally ill.

Many years ago, I was that child. My home life was a mess, and the neighbors ended up raising me and teaching me about life. I am positive the only reason I didn't end up in prison was the concern of those people.

Mr. and Mrs. P. taught me manners and work ethic, Mr. and Mrs. M. schooled me in kindness and compassion, and the local store owner, Mr. R., taught me economics.

"Friend," your wife is right. You CAN'T save everyone, but a little kindness and mentoring can change a child's life. And all it will cost you is a little time.

- Thankful for Ohio Neighbors

DEAR THANKFUL: Like you, many readers encouraged this man to continue in his role of father figure:

DEAR ABBY: It's a pity the wife doesn't recognize that her daughters have a chance to see a man at his best - caring for and protecting someone in need. The girls will seek these qualities in the men they bring into their lives, and it will add joy to the entire family. The best families always have plenty of love to go around for everyone.

- Stephen in Eugene, Ore.