Q: I'm happily married, but the sizzle's going out of my marriage. My husband seems content about our nonexistent sex life but I look back on our lusty days with sadness. I would like to go a sex party or try one of those sexy resorts in the Caribbean where people walk around naked. But my "old man" won't even consider doing anything. I have a drawer full of naughty nighties. I'm going nuts. What should I do?
Mia: Show him this email. Then drag the old coot to the doctor to see if there's anything medically wrong. If not, book that trip to the islands, tell him you are going with or without him. Then pack those nighties and go!