Q: As a male who's into bondage as a submissive, I have a tough time bringing up my kink to a potential new partner. How does a guy first discuss the fact that he wants to be tied up by a woman and/or pegged (anally penetrated using a dildo)?
Steve: I wouldn't mention it on the first date unless she greets you at the door wearing a black leather bodice.
Mia: Ask your girl what her biggest sexual fantasy is. After she answers, tell her that you're into being tied up. If she's cool with that level of kink, tell her you'd also like to be "pegged." She may be totally grossed out, but you'll never know until you ask.
