No change if gays allowed to marry
As a 72-year-old gay man who has lived with the same partner for more than 45 years, I must take issue with Gov. Christie's specious claim that allowing gay marriage would "redefine hundreds of years of societal, legal, and religious tradition" ("Let the public decide this issue," Monday). Granting gays the right to marry would redefine absolutely nothing, except in the lives of those who choose to marry.
Would my heterosexual relatives and friends, many of whom are divorced, have changed their lives one iota if my partner and I had a marriage certificate tucked away in a drawer all these years? That happens to be the question I've asked a number of U.S. presidents, as well as many local and state politicians. Absolutely no one has ever responded.