Haven: An 'empty nest' that still bustles

February 05, 2012|By Sally Friedman, For The Inquirer
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  • The living room, above, and kitchen , left, of the Abbate home in Moorestown. The kitchen has had two updates, not surprising considering how central it is to the life of this home, where a Super Bowl gathering is an annual rite.
  • The living room, above, and kitchen , left, of the Abbate home in Moorestown. The kitchen has had two updates, not surprising considering how central it is to the life of this home, where a Super Bowl gathering is an annual rite. (AKIRA SUWA /Staff Photographer )
  • Rosemary and Fred Abbate with their terrier, Olivia, in the family room and library of their Moorestown home. (AKIRA SUWA / Staff Photographer )
  • Fred & Rosemary Abbate's Morristown home
  • The dining room is where, typically, the women gather during the Super Bowl to talk about virtually anything but football.
  • The Abbates purchased their home in 1978 and raised three sons there. He's a philosophy professor; she is an actress and an accomplished Italian cook.

The chili pot will be on in the Moorestown home of Fred and Rosemary Abbate. The kitchen will be transformed into food central.

Downstairs, this 1912 dwelling, on a former peacock farm on a quiet corner near the center of town, will fill with Super Bowl watchers by late afternoon - as it has for nearly three decades.

Some houses are just made for parties, and this is one of them. Its owners, now empty-nesters, reared three lively sons here, so it's a kick-back, comfortable place with the sturdy "bones" of an earlier era.

Actually, it was because of one of those boys that the couple made a move from one end of Moorestown's Third Street to another.

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"Jason, our middle son, came to me one day demanding to have a room of his own," recalls Rosemary. "He was sharing a room with his brothers, and as the more serious guy, he was annoyed by their antics."

So his parents set out to find a family home that would be affordable on a college teacher's salary - Fred was a philosophy professor at Rutgers University at that time, and the budget was tight. But the Abbates also wanted a house that would suit their taste for older architecture in a town where they were determined to stay.

The couple - natives of New Haven, Conn., who moved to New York while Fred was studying for his doctorate at Columbia University - had never heard of Moorestown before hunting for their first house here.

In their more-informed second search, they came upon a property that was in foreclosure. Yes, Fred was a bit worried about the fix-up this house would demand - he was admittedly more conversant with Plato and Aristotle than with Black and Decker.

But the couple signed on the dotted line nonetheless and moved into the two-story, four-bedroom home in December 1978. Jason got a room of his own.

The first order of business was a renovation of the kitchen, and while it was going on, the family refrigerator resided in the living room. It was daunting, but well worth the effort - Rosemary, a local actress and former executive for the March of Dimes, is a legendary master of Italian cooking. (Another kitchen update was done in 2004.)

Their happiest early surprise: a second reading of the plot plan revealed that their lot was far larger than they'd realized and contained the "kissing tree," a weeping beech with a reputation for being the site of many first kisses in Moorestown.

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