Q: My husband and I are very busy - work and kids take up a lot of our daily lives. I recently found that if I want sex and I link my husband to a porn site I like, I get very good results. My friends who are my age (40-plus) complain about not getting enough sex. I told them how I use porn sites to encourage my husband. I got very negative reactions. Is it really abnormal for women to look at porn? Why do people find this so strange?
Steve: No, it's not abnormal for women to enjoy porn, although the porn women favor differs from porn geared toward men. Not sure why anyone would find this strange, other than the standard societal hypocrisy on the subject of sex. If it's helping your marriage, that strikes me as a good thing.