Her husband spends way too much time with their neighbor

Posted: March 23, 2012

Q: My husband is devoted to me and the kids - or so I thought, before he started helping one of our neighbors. At first, he would go and cut her lawn. That turned into helping her with projects inside the house. He's over there at least once a week. I try to be nice, since her husband died in Afghanistan while serving our country and she's all alone now, but this is getting out of hand.

Steve: Maybe he's just being a good neighbor. Or, maybe, those inside projects are really inside projects, if you get my drift. Either way, it's time for a chat with him. Possible solution: You both help your neighbor.

Mia:I think Uncle Sam would understand if you get this lady in check. The next time she needs a handyman, make sure it's you who shows up and not your hubby.

Q: I love it when my girlfriend massages my bare feet and plays with my toes. I think it's OK to do when, say, we're at a friend's house. But she's uptight and won't do it unless we're at home and nobody else is watching. She says my kink is out of control. I want her to relax and enjoy life.

Mia: Hey, Twinkle Toes, you're the one who needs to lighten up. Your girlfriend gets to decide when, where and if she plays with your stinky feet. So keep your feet in your shoes until she lets you know she's ready to get groovy with your instep.

Steve: Sounds like you've gotten yourself into a toe jam. Relationships are all about compromise. Be happy she plays with your little piggies at all.

Steve is a 50-something married man who's been around the block. Mia is a younger, recently married woman with an all-together different attitude. They may not agree, but they have plenty of answers. For answers email S&M@phillynews.com or write: S&M c/o Daily News, 400 N. Broad St., Philadelphia, PA 19130.

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