Q: My husband is devoted to me and the kids - or so I thought, before he started helping one of our neighbors. At first, he would go and cut her lawn. That turned into helping her with projects inside the house. He's over there at least once a week. I try to be nice, since her husband died in Afghanistan while serving our country and she's all alone now, but this is getting out of hand.
Steve: Maybe he's just being a good neighbor. Or, maybe, those inside projects are really inside projects, if you get my drift. Either way, it's time for a chat with him. Possible solution: You both help your neighbor.