Question: My fiance's close friend always complains that his girlfriend picks ridiculous fights and escalates everyday issues into big dramatic episodes. This is supposedly because she's insecure about the relationship, but I find her a very cool, interesting person and him nice but neurotic.
Fiance's theory is she's erratic and craves drama and his friend is just inexperienced; my theory is they're not compatible and need to break up, end of story.
Now Fiance tells me he advised his friend to propose as a way to "test" whether she's truly insecure or just crazy (and then break off the engagement if it's established that she's just crazy). I told him I think the idea is absurd and will end badly ... they will probably get married regardless.