Q: One of my cubicle mates is sneaking around with a married man in another department. I'm newly married and, frankly, I'm tempted to make an anonymous phone call to this man's wife. I'm not going to dime out my colleague. I just want to let this woman know that her husband isn't working as late as he claims, so maybe she can get him to stop. I tried talking to my cubicle mate about this but she's in la la land, convinced that he's going to leave his wife and kids and be with her. I thought she was smarter than this, but I guess she's getting older and must be tired of living with nobody but her cats to keep her company.