Subsequently, my husband's physician advised him his progress was such that air travel was not an option in the foreseeable future.
I asked Virgin for a refund and was told I would get one within the next four to eight weeks. It did not happen. I have called and received no help. I have written to the company, but nothing has been done.
I would appreciate any help or suggestions you might be able to give me.
— LeEster Koranteng, Sanford, Fla.
Answer: If Virgin promised you a refund, you should get it. But did it?
When an airline says it will offer a refund on a nonrefundable ticket, it can mean you'll get all of your money back. Or it can mean that it intends to refund taxes and fees, but not the fare. Or, in your case, it can mean it intends to do nothing at all.
So, unless you specifically had a promise to refund the entire ticket — and preferably in writing — this may have been a misunderstanding between you and Virgin Atlantic.
Then again, maybe not. Airlines sometimes waive their nonrefundability rules for medical reasons, but they must be severe. For example, broken limbs or temporary illnesses typically don't rise to that level, while chronic or terminal illnesses do. But I've seen airlines balk at refunding tickets to the relatives of passengers who have died.
Seriously.
Documenting Virgin Atlantic's refund promise might have saved you a lot of hassle. You can do that by e-mailing the airline through its website and keeping the correspondence. Any assurances given to you by phone don't really count for much. Why? Because there's no evidence that a representative made those promises.
Still, you deserve a straight answer from the airline. If they're going to keep your money, they should tell you instead of stringing you along.
I contacted Virgin Atlantic on your behalf, and it refunded your husband's ticket. I wish him a speedy recovery.
Christopher Elliott is the author of "Scammed: How to Save Your Money and Find Better Service in a World of Schemes, Swindles, and Shady Deals" (Wiley). He's also the ombudsman for National Geographic Traveler magazine and the cofounder of the Consumer Travel Alliance, a nonprofit organization that advocates for travelers. E-mail him at chris@elliott.org.