DEAR HARRY: The deed to my house says that my husband and I are "tenants by the entireties." He left me after almost 50 years of a stormy marriage. That was in 2010. Since then, I have tried to find out where I stand. One lawyer told me that the house is now mine under this type of deed. Another lawyer told me that I have to go to court to get the title, but he also said that my husband would lie and say I threw him out. This would leave things as they are. I went to the court for support and got some of his Social Security assigned to me. Now he is claiming poverty, so I'm going to lose that. He is in an assisted-living home, and welfare is paying his rent. He has two friends who work in Family Court, so I think he's in a position to influence what happens. Help!