Q: My girlfriend was somehow surprised that a lot of guys (meaning: all guys) have at some point gone on the Internet to look at porn. Ever since she found this out, she's seems to look at me different. Maybe I'm just imagining thing, but I don't think so. Any suggestions on how to tell her this is not a big deal?
— Looker in Fishtown
A: Maybe she looks at you different because she saw your picture on some porn site. Just kidding, dude. Seriously, the only guy she has to concern herself with is you, not other guys. Your relationship with her is all that matters, not how other guys conduct themselves. You are not responsible for what the rest of the world does online. Put the ball back in her court and tell her that what women do on porn sites is not a reflection of her either. Hopefully she'll buy that logic, 'bro!