Question: When my husband and I learned I was pregnant, we couldn't wait to tell our parents. We told them together and asked that they not share the news until well after the first trimester. They agreed, but within five minutes of the conversation, my father-in-law had posted the news to Facebook - one action we had specifically asked they not do at all.
A month or so later we lost the pregnancy. I was devastated, but managed ... that is, until a family event when a number of well-meaning relatives wished us congratulations, peppered us with questions, and finally had to hear our sad news. They were visibly upset about it and we left the event because I was too shaken.