DEAR ABBY: I have been married eight months. My wife has an occasional habit that makes me wonder whether we got married too young. (She's 23, I'm 27, and we're both in graduate school.) She likes to go out with a group of her friends from high school or with her sister, get drunk and stay the night.
I'm not worried about her cheating on me. I try not to be controlling and say she "can't" go out. But it bothers me. If I talk about it, she gets angry and says she doesn't get to see her friends very often. I don't understand why her socializing always has to involve staying out all night. Her sister is my age and has a career, but still likes hosting these parties. I wonder when she will outgrow this. What should I do?



