DEAR HARRY: I was born in the Philippines. Twelve years ago, I married an American citizen in my country, and we lived together for a short time. We have been separated since 2002. I saw him last in 2007 when he came to see me in Manila. He was suffering from diabetes and very high cholesterol. He came back to the States, and I have not heard from him or about him since then. His last known address got me nowhere. I have no idea who his friends are or where his family lives. Harry, I need to know if he's still alive. We never had children, so there's no help there. Please guide me.