While I'm away, readers give the advice.
On fears of raising entitled children:
Comment: Surely the parents (who wrote to you about this: http://wapo.st/Z3N4ve) confuse cause and effect. Is their success not due to their educational achievements rather than the source of their tuition? I bet their parents didn't do their homework for them and try to get their teachers to give them unearned good grades so they could go to top universities. I bet their parents encouraged and supported and, yes, required that they do their very best in school from day one. I bet they learned values and behaviors that have nothing to do with money.