Question: Our daughter, 27 and married for just over two years, is feeling she "is living the wrong life." He is 10 years older and wanted to start a family, but his, "When do you think you will be ready?" has caused her to put the brakes on and have a rethink - of where she is, where they are as a couple, etc. Bottom line is that she doesn't love him the way you would expect a "newly" married couple to feel for each other. There has been no passion, she states, for a long time.
I believe they have laid everything out for discussion, but I can tell from my daughter's personality, etc., that she has decided that she doesn't love him the way a wife should, rather thinks of him as a wonderful friend.