"We're forming a national coalition of organizations across the country that do this work around mothers who have lost children to violence," she says. "It was ironic that we had never met until Saturday, but we've been on the phone."
Since her 21-year-old son Khaaliq Jabbar Johnson was gunned down in December 2001 during a dispute over a parking space, Mother's Day has been difficult for Johnson-Speight. She also lost a child to bacterial meningitis in 1986.
"For a long time, it was horrible, it was very difficult, even with my daughter. When moms lose a son or daughter to violence, they have surviving children, but Mother's Day is still a very difficult time, because as much as they love their surviving children, the focus on that day oftentimes for me, and I talk to mothers all the time, is the child that is missing," she says.
The Mount Airy resident says things have gotten better over the years as she has engrossed herself in work and other things.
She had planned to go to dinner with her 26-year-old daughter, Markita, but after returning home from Indiana around 7 p.m., those plans were scrapped. Instead, the two spent time catching up at Johnson-Speight's home, while Markita's 2-year-old son, Khaaliq, entertained himself on his mother's cellphone.
"He'll be 3 next Sunday," Johnson-Speight said of her grandson, "so we're trying to figure out what we're going to do for his birthday, but even in the midst all of that, he's named after my son, so I'm still always wishing he was here to be in his life, be the uncle to his namesake."
- Solomon Leach
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