Steve: Which is more likely to be another guy than a woman. When a woman does it, no one ever complains.
Q: I've been seeing this guy for about six months and all was well until the other day, when we were going at it and suddenly he finishes on my face. I totally wasn't expecting it. It pissed me off. He doesn't think he did anything wrong. Now, he's mad at me for making a big deal about it. Am I overreacting?
Mia: No. You're entitled to feel the way you feel. But you do have to be clear with your man about what your limits are. It's always a good idea to do this before you get naked.
Steve: There's a first time for everything, but each partner should ask before springing something new on their mate. To do otherwise is base selfishness.
Steve is a 50-something married man who's been around the block. Mia is a younger, recently married woman with an all-together different attitude. They may not agree, but they have plenty of answers. Contact them at S&M@phillynews.com or S&M c/o Daily News, 801 Market St., Philadelphia, PA 19107.