August 2, 2011
DEAR ABBY: I am writing to respond to "Old Mama in Washington State," whose pregnancy at 40 is unwelcome to her husband and two teens. My parents had a "bonus baby" when they were in their early 40s. I was 17 and my brother was 13 when we found out. It was hard for us to accept at first. All our worries disappeared when we first laid eyes on our baby sister. I love her to death, and she is lucky to have my brother as her protector. It was a good thing that we were nearly 18 years apart, because I got the benefits of a sister without having to share a room!
June 27, 2011 |
Question: I am an 84-year-old widow in pretty good health. I'd like to remain in my home for the rest of my life, unlike many of my friends who have already moved into assisted-living facilities. My two children live out of state and I'm not sure what my options are for the future. How does someone my age find out about resources to help as I get older and need more aid? How do I know who is trustworthy? Answer: An impressive statistic that makes your question timely is that there are 10,000 baby boomers turning 65 every day. If you want to remain in your home for life, you need to rest assured that all home-care needs will be met over the years - especially if you have no spouse or children to provide ongoing care.
June 14, 2011 |
Adapted from a recent online discussion. Question: My husband and I are finally pregnant. It's been a long and physically and emotionally taxing road, and we are so relieved and so thrilled. The only damper is that my parents weren't in contact much through this process, mustered little joy when they heard the news, and have finally revealed that it's because they don't believe in infertility treatments. They don't believe it's "God's will," and would have preferred if we had adopted.
June 1, 2011
DEAR ABBY: I'm a 40-year-old, stay-at-home mom with a 17-year-old and a 14-year-old. Three weeks ago, on my birthday, I found out that I am pregnant. Forty and pregnant - it is truly a miracle. My husband, who is almost 50, is in complete shock. He has looked like a ghost since he found out. I finally had an emotional meltdown and told him I don't feel like he's very happy for our unexpected bundle. His reply? "Sorry, hon, I'm not!" He thinks he's too old. My older child has said only one sentence to me since I told her the news: "You're going to be an old mom. " They feel I have ruined their lives.
April 7, 2011
MOTHER'S DAY 2008 changed my life in the most wonderful way when I gave birth to my amazing son, Darius. While I discovered that I loved being a mother, what I didn't love was the extra weight I was carrying post-pregnancy. I'm a personal trainer, but like many women, I wondered if my body was going to return to its pre-pregnancy size and shape. Now it's time to find out. I'm about to embark on a 12-week body-transformation challenge, just in time for the bikini season. But first, let's go back to that wonderful Mother's Day three years ago. Totally committed to breast-feeding, I resolved not to diet as long as my son was nursing.
March 30, 2011 |
Draped in violet silk chiffon, mom-to-be Natalie Portman looked sensational at the Academy Awards, baby bump and all. But for Tamar Klaiman, like most other women, the home stretch of pregnancy was anything but glamorous. With an aching back and swollen feet, the last thing Klaiman wanted in the weeks before her due date was a baby shower. "I had no desire to be in a room full of people paying all their attention to me and to open presents in front of everyone," said the first-time mother, whose son, Abraham, was born in April.
March 23, 2011 |
PIERRE, S.D. - South Dakota Gov. Dennis Daugaard signed a law Tuesday requiring women to wait three days after meeting with a doctor to have an abortion, the longest waiting period in the nation. Abortion rights groups immediately said they plan to file a lawsuit challenging the measure, which also requires women to undergo counseling at pregnancy help centers that discourage abortions. Daugaard said in a written statement that he has conferred with state attorneys who will defend the law in court and a sponsor who has pledged private money to finance the state's legal costs.
January 25, 2011
HOPE PREGNANCY isn't a medical clinic - it only looks like one. Situated in the 700 block of North Broad Street, it offers free pregnancy testing and ultrasound imaging in a clinical setting, but it's actually a church-run counseling center, a distinction that's not always apparent to the distraught women who walk in seeking assistance with crisis pregnancies. In a neighborhood in which health-care options are sorely limited, it's easy to see how a woman, especially one in an emotionally distressed state, might be confused about what it is that Hope does.
January 5, 2011
THE NATION'S teen-pregnancy rate is at its lowest level in decades. But don't toss condoms into the air in celebration just yet. Although we're faring a whole lot better than in the past, the U.S. teen-pregnancy rate remains embarrassingly high compared with that of many European countries. And here's another reason to be ashamed: MTV deserves credit for the drop. Not to take anything away from federal de-funding of abinstence-only sex education and improved safe-sex campaigns, but the cable network that introduced us to Snooki of "Jersey Shore" fame and the misogynistic term "grenade," has done a lot to raise awareness about the pitfalls of teen pregnancy.
September 11, 2010 |
Question: I am a very unhappy pregnant woman, and friends/family seem to be bothered by that. I actually had a friend practically give me a lecture the other day saying that I was ungrateful. I love children and am really looking forward to bringing a child into my family. But why do I have to be happy about being pregnant? So far it's been about getting fat, being bloated, restricting what I can eat and drink, feeling sick. I would gladly adopt five kids over having to do this again.